Thursday, November 21, 2013

What Is It?


I have two question for you guys.  What is it about a man that always turns you on?  Makes you weak in he knees?  This is not necessarily a question about sex, but about that one thing that never fails for you to think or say aloud, "Ugh, damn!"

For me, that one thing is when a man smells good.  Smells have always evoked a strong emotional response with me.  I love the smell of a man when he is freshly showered, or when he has on the perfect cologne.  I'm not speaking of a funky smell or anything, but sometimes it is just the smell of man that can drive me crazy.

I asked a friend of mine what was his major turn on, and he said that it was the feel of a man's body.  I have to agree with him on this. Just think about when I guy walks up behind you and his hard chest meets your back.  I know that my knees turn to jelly when a guy does this.  

Also, what is the first thing about a guy that you notice?  If I'm facing a guy, my eyes generally go to his eyes, but if his back is to me, I'm going to check out his butt first. My friend mentioned that one of the first thing he notices about a guy is if he has sexy kissable lips.  He really enjoys kissing, so his eyes always goes to a guys lips.  

So I want to know from you guys (and gals for those who read this):  What is the one thing about a man that never fails to turn you on?  Also, what is the first thing you notice about a guy?

11 comments:

Bob Slatten said...

I love a man with an accent.
Yeah, accents do it for me.
And luckily I am in love with a man with an accent.

silvereagle said...

The smile, grin if you will, when he looks my way...just a glance or a more direct examination with his eyes.....

rjjs8878 said...

It depends on the situation. If I’m at the gym I’ll check out their overall physique. I’ll zero in on biceps and legs. I love a good pair of hairy legs. If I’m in a social situation I’ll check out how a guys is dressed, especially his shoes. I love a man who dresses well and wears good shoes. Then it’s on to his eyes.

MAC said...

A man who makes eye contact with me when we talk and can make me laugh.

Anonymous said...

Shyness. When you notice a guy noticing you and he notices you noticing and shyly he deverts his eyes ... I'm hooked.

JiEL said...

Hard to say what is attractive for me but, little ears, a gorgeous white teeth smile, large shoulders, a general look simple and not too much «buffed», curly hair, nice body odor not to much cologne, blue eyes or green ones...
But, mostly, someone that is natural with non snobish acting with that little something that make him special...
Intelligence and cultured well educated man is a plus too...

As you see, it's not a must for a man to have ALL of these but just a nice blend of some of these features...
Nobody is perfect, not me for sure...

(((( HUGS ))))

Stew Adams said...

Grooming and Styling. If a man knows how to take care of himself and present himself well, I am all his.

Anonymous said...

Yes, general body fitness is good but it all comes to the eyes. If he doesn't have great eyes and a great smile then it doesn't matter what the rest of his boy looks like.

One of my ex-boyfriends was Chinese and he had those amazing almond-shaped eyes that flashed when his passion was there. He also had the cutest dimpled smile. I was lost.

Jay M. said...

Accents. Face.

What can I say, I'm easy to please...to wit: I am in lust with a guy at work who is rather heavy for his height, but his face is gorgeous. I am in love with a best friend who is tall and lanky, but has this AWESOME face. Some friends in England....ooooooo...that accent just makes me drool in at least two places. I could go on.

The biggest attraction is not physical...it's personality. Hard to quantify, but sooo important!

Peace <3
Jay

Jay M. said...

Oh, and I'll take the two of them in the picture. That's purely physical!!!
Jay

Anonymous said...

Eyes, nose, lips, and voice.