tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5356114186987252972.post6680411067130541064..comments2024-03-27T13:20:39.780-04:00Comments on The Closet Professor: Interesting Times…Joehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05299122685163501819noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5356114186987252972.post-33962838842187890592021-10-10T18:09:55.015-04:002021-10-10T18:09:55.015-04:00Dylan? I just discocvered you on circuitous route ...Dylan? I just discocvered you on circuitous route through Muscle Lovers (a bodybuilder site)<br />and if I say something dumb just consider how we met, lol. Did you say you have headache<br />problems? I used to when young, discovered my blood sugar fell and I got too hungry, that's what caused them. Then your trip in Vt. where the restaurant was closed. Have you considered carrying some good quality energy/meal bars in your glove compartment? You must take care of your body. Was that you in the pic? <br />I live in South Carolina, I can relate to your frustration in meeting guys. jv<br />John Vhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00085265410461545701noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5356114186987252972.post-52690962128241921482021-10-05T12:49:38.745-04:002021-10-05T12:49:38.745-04:00Dylan, I’m have tried Tinder, but I haven’t had mu...Dylan, I’m have tried Tinder, but I haven’t had much luck with it. As silly as this may sound, I find it a little difficult to use. The swipe right or left thing confuses me. I can’t remember which way I’m supposed to swipe, and I feel bad about rejecting people. Also, I’m not good at messaging someone first, so when I do match with someone I get awkward/ nervous about sending the first message. I may give it another try though. Maybe I just need to get used to it.<br />Joehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05299122685163501819noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5356114186987252972.post-39951404935123148622021-10-05T01:18:25.466-04:002021-10-05T01:18:25.466-04:00Have you tried Tinder? I had luck there for a litt...Have you tried Tinder? I had luck there for a little while. I'm not really the hookup type, but I enjoy going on dates and seeing if it leads to more.Dylannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5356114186987252972.post-18967070977529757532021-10-04T12:29:23.126-04:002021-10-04T12:29:23.126-04:00I'll never understand why gay men in a serious...I'll never understand why gay men in a serious relationship would need to go and have sex out of the couple. <br />More now with the COVID-19 as it's not quite secure to do it. <br /><br />When and IF I could be in that kind of serious relationship with my lover, I wouldn't go to have sex with anyone else. As sex with a lover is to me something very precious and it's built along the months and years. When you come to really know each other, you and you're partner then really knows what is the most arousing in having sex and more, making real «Love« together. A valuable intimacy that you can never have with some random hook ups. <br /><br />I maybe old school but to me having sex with random men is no more than teenager's «dicks touching» or masturbation but with another fellow. <br /><br />JiELhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03290330475832440721noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5356114186987252972.post-58701004167311343722021-10-04T10:40:26.401-04:002021-10-04T10:40:26.401-04:00I met my husband of 18 years on an app. We opened ...I met my husband of 18 years on an app. We opened up in 2016.<br /><br />I struggle the most with negotiating on-going intimacy with friends. What topics are emotionally safe for conversation? Is a meet-up with some romantic elements OK? Only friction and body parts? When, if ever, can one of us ask for hookup sex? <br /><br />I had a small, comfortable circle of intimates. The pandemic nuked it. The worst aspect of that: "casual" means no definitive breakups or closure.<br /><br />It's almost enough to turn a dude poly.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5356114186987252972.post-14596618830208352822021-10-04T08:06:30.340-04:002021-10-04T08:06:30.340-04:00Using the apps to find guys seems to be the defact...Using the apps to find guys seems to be the defacto way people meet and while they are used everywhere, when they first came out I thought they were best for people like you who don't live in traditional gay enclaves. While on some level the apps provide a way to connect, I'm more often hearing friends talk about how frustrating they can be.<br /><br />BosGuyhttp://www.bosguy.comnoreply@blogger.com