Saturday night is the Pride Ball. There will be fifteen drag performers and two DJs. It should be a fun party. I had debated going because I had a full schedule Friday and Sunday. However, I changed my mind.
Nearly four years ago on the day before my birthday when I had first moved to Vermont, one of my closest friends died in a car accident. I was beyond devastated, and I couldn’t even blog for a while. It took me a long time to get over his death. You might ask why I’m telling you this. Well, Saturday would have been his 29th birthday. He was always a huge advocate of me putting myself out there, so in honor of him, I plan to go to Pride Ball, even if it’s by myself.
"I plan to go to Pride Ball, even if it’s by myself."
ReplyDeletePlease go, put yourself out there. Continue to be your best company. Yes, a man is nice to share the mundane events of life, conversation... As you know, you don't need a man to make you whole.
I speak from experience. I have put myself out there on many occasions. A few occasions were unpleasant. I could use descriptors of devastating, tragic...but I want to rain in the diva today. I don't mind going for coffee, restaurants, movies, trips, outings, meet-ups...by myself. I may bump into prince charming. If not, so be it. At least I gave it a shot.
Nothing gained, nothing lost.
Happy Hunting! Be charming and respectful this is not Dynasty.
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