Sunday, May 10, 2026

Speech Seasoned with Salt

“Conduct yourselves wisely toward outsiders, making the most of the time. Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer everyone.”

— Colossians 4:5–6

For many LGBTQ+ Christians, words have often been weapons rather than blessings. Some of us grew up hearing careless comments, harsh sermons, or so-called “truth” spoken without grace. Others learned to stay silent because we feared what might happen if we spoke honestly about who we are. Words matter. They can wound deeply, but they can also heal, encourage, and remind someone that they are loved by God.

In this passage, Paul reminds believers that our speech should be “gracious, seasoned with salt.” Salt preserves, enhances, and gives flavor. Paul is not calling Christians to be cruel, sarcastic, or self-righteous. Instead, he is urging us to speak with wisdom, kindness, sincerity, and depth. Our words should reflect the love of Christ, not the bitterness of the world.

That message feels especially important today. LGBTQ+ people know what it is like to encounter speech that tears down rather than builds up. Yet Scripture repeatedly calls us toward another way.

Ephesians 4:29 reminds us:

“Let no evil talk come out of your mouths, but only what is useful for building up, as there is need, so that your words may give grace to those who hear.”

And in Proverbs 16:24 we read:

“Pleasant words are like a honeycomb, sweetness to the soul and health to the body.”

As LGBTQ+ Christians, we have an opportunity to embody this kind of grace-filled speech in a world that often thrives on outrage and cruelty. That does not mean remaining silent in the face of injustice. Jesus Himself spoke boldly against hypocrisy and oppression. But even truth can be spoken with compassion and wisdom rather than hatred.

In fact, Jesus says in Matthew 5:13:

“You are the salt of the earth.”

Salt changes the flavor of whatever it touches. When we speak with kindness, authenticity, and love, we bear witness to the presence of Christ in our lives. Sometimes the most powerful testimony is not an argument won, but a gracious word spoken at the right moment.

There will always be voices that seek to shame, condemn, or divide. We do not have to answer hatred with hatred. We can answer with dignity. With wisdom. With truth wrapped in grace.

May our words never become bland, empty, or cruel. Instead, may they be seasoned with the salt of compassion, honesty, and Christlike love.

Friday, May 8, 2026

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TGIF


It’s finally Friday, and thankfully, it’s also a work from home Friday. After a long week, I’m looking forward to a quieter day with a cup of coffee nearby and a chance to work through a few projects without the usual interruptions. Nothing too stressful, just catching up on some things that need to get done and easing into the weekend at a slower pace.

Honestly, these kinds of Fridays are always appreciated. It’s nice to have a day where I can focus, stay comfortable, and not worry about commuting or running from one thing to another. Hopefully, by the end of the day, I’ll have a few projects checked off my list and can fully settle into the weekend.

I hope all of you have a wonderful Friday and an even better weekend!

Thursday, May 7, 2026

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Wings, Lost Films, and a Kiss That Still Resonates


When people talk about LGBTQ+ moments in classic Hollywood, the conversation usually begins somewhere in the 1930s or 1940s, often in coded dialogue, lingering glances, or the carefully crafted innuendo of the Production Code era. Yet one of the most fascinating moments in early cinema happened before the Hays Code truly tightened its grip on Hollywood morality: a kiss between two men in the 1927 silent film Wings.

Most people know Wings because it won the very first Academy Award for Best Picture (then called “Outstanding Picture”) at the first Academy Awards ceremony. It was a massive World War I aviation epic, famous for its aerial combat scenes and ambitious filmmaking. What many modern viewers do not realize is that near the end of the film, there is an intimate scene between the two male leads, Jack Powell and David Armstrong, played by Charles ‘Buddy’ Rogers and Richard Arlen.

In the scene, David lies dying after being mistakenly shot down by Jack. As Jack cradles his friend in grief and desperation, he kisses him. It is brief and tender, not presented as overtly romantic, but emotionally intimate in a way that still surprises audiences nearly a century later.

Was it intended to be a “gay kiss”? Probably not in the way we would define it today. The scene is framed through the intense emotional bonds forged by war and male friendship. Yet to dismiss it entirely as devoid of queer meaning would also ignore the realities of both cinema and audience interpretation.

Hollywood has always had gay men within it—actors, directors, writers, costume designers, composers, and producers—even when they were forced to remain hidden. Silent-era Hollywood especially existed in a somewhat freer space before the stricter moral policing of later decades. Audiences, too, were more complex than historians once acknowledged. Gay men sitting in darkened theaters in 1927 may very well have recognized something in that moment that straight audiences interpreted differently. Queer audiences have always learned to read between the lines, to find fragments of themselves in stories never openly meant for them.

That is part of what makes the scene so fascinating. It works on multiple levels at once. For mainstream audiences, it was tragic camaraderie and devotion between brothers-in-arms. For others, perhaps it hinted at something deeper and more emotionally honest than Hollywood would later allow itself to show for decades.

The scene also reminds us how fluid emotional expression between men could sometimes appear in early cinema before later cultural anxieties hardened those boundaries. There is vulnerability in the moment, tenderness, physical affection, and grief expressed openly. Even today, many films struggle to portray male intimacy with such sincerity.

For many years, however, there was a chance audiences might never see Wings again at all.

Like countless silent films, Wings was once considered a lost film. The original prints existed on nitrate film stock, which was notoriously unstable and highly flammable. Nitrate film deteriorates over time, becoming brittle, sticky, chemically unstable, and eventually capable of spontaneous combustion under the wrong conditions. Entire film archives and movie vaults were destroyed in catastrophic nitrate fires during the early twentieth century. My own museum has had many nitrate reels of film in the collection over the years. Several were sent to the Smithsonian Institution to be digitized, while those that remained are stored in a special freezer designed to slow deterioration and reduce the danger of spontaneous combustion. Archivists and curators quickly learn that you never want to open an old film reel and smell vinegar. That sharp vinegar odor is often a sign of “vinegar syndrome,” a chemical breakdown process that signals the film is actively deteriorating.

When a surviving print of Wings was discovered in the archives of the CinΓ©mathΓ¨que FranΓ§aise in Paris, archivists understood immediately how urgent the situation was. The film had to be copied as quickly as possible from nitrate stock onto modern “safety film” stock, which used acetate rather than nitrate and was far less dangerous and far more stable for long-term preservation.

Without that preservation effort, one of the most historically significant films ever made—and one of early Hollywood’s most unexpectedly touching moments of male intimacy—might have vanished forever.

That is one of the beautiful things about film preservation. We are not simply saving entertainment. We are saving cultural memory, emotional history, and the quiet moments that speak across generations. A nearly hundred-year-old silent film can still surprise us, still move us, and still make us wonder what certain audiences may have seen hidden between the frames.

And perhaps that is part of the enduring magic of Wings. Beneath the spectacle of airplanes and warfare lies a fleeting moment of tenderness that continues to resonate long after the silent era faded away.

Wednesday, May 6, 2026

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Creatures of Habit

Isabella woke me up at 4:00 this morning—apparently starving, as always. She’s a creature of habit, and once she decides it’s time to eat, there’s no convincing her otherwise. So I got up, fed her, and crawled back into bed. I managed another forty-five minutes of sleep before she decided that was quite enough for both of us. I’m not entirely convinced she understands that I need to get up and get ready for work. More likely, she thinks it’s simply time for me to be awake… or perhaps she’s trying to trick me into feeding her again.

Either way, she won.

So, I got up, made a cup of coffee and some toast, and settled in for a quiet start to the morning—writing this post and half-watching the news before I have to get ready for the day. It’s not a bad way to ease into things, even if it came a little earlier than I would have preferred.

The good news is that I’m not dreading work today. In fact, I’m actually looking forward to it. I’ll be the only one there, which means no interruptions, no distractions—just the rare chance to focus. Days like that are a gift.

I’ve been working on a project that falls into that strange category of being both time-consuming and genuinely enjoyable: creating a class. It’s currently just a one- or two-day component within a larger course, but I’m also developing a full semester-long course proposal built around it. It’s the kind of work that requires patience and thought, but it’s also the kind I find most rewarding.

Of course, there’s always the possibility that I’ll decide to take advantage of the quiet in a different way—maybe pull out my Kindle and read for a bit. That’s the beauty of a day like today. I can focus on something meaningful… or, if I need to, nothing at all.

And honestly, sometimes that’s just as important.


Here’s an Isabella pic of the week: clearly exhausted from the demands of her early morning schedule, she’s already curled up and getting on with her very busy day—while I get going with mine.