Nothing Can Separate Us from God’s Love

“What, then, shall we say in response to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us?…For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

— Romans 8:3, 38-39

As LGBTQ+ people of faith, we sometimes face rejection—whether from family, church, or society. We may wonder: Does God still love me? Am I truly welcome in God’s embrace? Romans 8:31-39 offers a resounding YES to those questions. Paul reminds us that if God is for us, nothing can stand against us—not condemnation, not judgment, not rejection. He goes even further, declaring that absolutely nothing—not hardship, persecution, fear, or even death—can separate us from the love of Christ.

God’s love is not conditional. It does not depend on how others see us or even how we sometimes see ourselves. It is steadfast, unshakable, and unwavering. Jesus’ sacrifice is proof that we are deeply cherished, exactly as we are. When we face discrimination or self-doubt, we can hold on to this truth: We are more than conquerors through Him who loves us. God’s love is not reserved for a select few—it is for everyone, including LGBTQ+ people. We are not excluded from the grace, purpose, and beauty of God’s plan.

How does knowing that nothing can separate you from God’s love change the way you see yourself and your place in the world? Just as we often struggle with whether God loves us, we also struggle with self-acceptance. Messages from the world—sometimes even from churches—may tell us that we are unworthy, sinful, or somehow “less than.” But Romans 8:31-39 assures us that nothing can separate us from God’s love. This means that not only does God love us fully, but God also calls us to love ourselves as divine creations.

Loving ourselves is not selfish or prideful—it is a reflection of the way God sees us. Jesus reminds us of this in Mark 12:31 when He teaches, “Love your neighbor as yourself.” If we are to love others well, we must first love ourselves. That means embracing our identity, our gifts, and our worth, knowing that God made no mistake in creating us exactly as we are.

In 1 Samuel 16:7, when Samuel was sent to anoint the next king, he assumed God would choose someone strong and mighty. “But the Lord said to Samuel, ‘Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.’” This reminds us that God’s love and purpose are not based on societal expectations, but on the truth of who we are. God chose David, saying, “People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”

In John 21:15-19, Peter had denied Jesus three times and he felt ashamed and unworthy. Yet, Jesus restored him, showing that our mistakes and struggles do not separate us from God’s love. This reminds us to extend grace to ourselves, knowing that we are always welcome in God’s presence. But what does this mean for us? We were created by God, and He created us with a different sexuality than the majority of the world. We have not denied Christ; we have just sought his love. So, what does John 21:15-19 mean for us today? It means that by loving ourselves in the light of God’s love we are embracing our identity as God’s beloved, without shame. We are peaking kindly to ourselves and rejecting negative self-talk. We are surrounding ourselves with love—people, communities, and messages that affirm our worth, and we are caring for ourselves spiritually, mentally, and physically.