Saturday, November 30, 2013

Moment of Zen: Alone Time


I love being around other people.  I'm usually a very social person, that is as long as I know the people I'm with (otherwise, I can be quite shy).  But sometimes, and I suspect we are all a little like this, I enjoy being alone.  Yes, one of my most fervent wishes is to find a man with whom to spend the rest of my life, but I will still most likely enjoy some alone time.  Sometimes, that alone time can be quite wonderful and relaxing.  I was enjoying such a moment of alone time the other day, when I was inspired to write this post.  This may be a bit more risqué than my usual "Moment of Zen," but since it's my birthday today, I decided to indulge myself in a more seductive moment.

Now this would certainly be better with some one else, but that's another scenario.  I was lying in a bubble bath, when this began to consume my thoughts, but it could have also, just as easily, been while lying lazily in bed.  It's that moment when you are alone.  It may be peacefully quiet, or soft music could be playing.  It really doesn't matter, but it is whatever gets you in your most relaxed state.  For me, I was taking a bubble bath, something I love, but rarely do.

I began to think of a certain beautiful young man, and since I was naked, my hand drifted to my penis.  This was not a moment that I was intent to bring myself to orgasm, but to merely fondle myself.  I began to gently run my fingers around my balls and up my shaft, slowly allowing the blood to rush to the now attentive appendage.  I never fully grasped the shaft, but gently used my fingers to stroke my member to its full tumescence. Once fully aroused, I was completely relaxed and began to slowly stroke myself, moving up and down. Occasionally, I would linger around the head, lightly running a finger around, sometimes paying a little more attention to the sensitive underside, before working my way back down.  I then took my balls in my hand and gently rolled them around, tugging them lightly before moving back up the shaft.

On lazy days, this is one of my favorite things to do, whether I'm slick with soap in the bath or using some lubricant while lying in bed.  It's a great way to relax.  Often, when lying in bed at night, especially after a tiring day, I love to do this.  When I'm really tired, I know I don't want to have to deal with the clean-up after orgasm, so this is a great way to release tension.  Just a teasingly slow solo activity that lulls me to sleep.  When I do this at night before I fall asleep, I usually dream peacefully of carnal pleasures and awaken with that glorious male event known as morning wood.  Taking care of that to a climax is a wonderful way to wake up and get your day started.  It's made even better by the more intense orgasm that results from the leisurely, anticipatory, but non-climactic events of the previous night.

8 comments:

Will said...

A very Happy Birthday to you! I don't remember how long it's been since I started reading the blog, but I like the way you write and always enjoy your take on things.

Masturbating in bed at the end of the day and releasing all of the daily tensions and stimulations was something I did nightly when I was single, on those nights when someone wasn't sharing the bed with me. I kept an old towel for the sole purpose in the bed and, after orgasm, simply folded it over and went to sleep--no clean-up except tossing it into the wash regularly. And morning wood, it goes without saying, always led to the best possible way to get the day off to a great start. That towel got a LOT of use. :-)

Amanda said...

Happy Birthday!! Hope it's a good day for you. I love your posts and the thought and honesty behind them. Masturbation is a great way to relieve stress. Sometimes that's the best way to get a good night's sleep. :)

silvereagle said...

MMMMMMMMMMM A great post....love the 'big words' you choose and the specifics of you fun time....mine would read similar I am sure as would the writings of many of your readers.....Great to be alive!!! And It would be great to blow the bubbles away from that guys hand in the photo!!!

JiEL said...

Hi, Nice post and must tell that the nice man in the bath is JOSH OHL from All American Guys site..

As I was teaching for 37years, I must confess that every «alone moments» are priceless....
Being always surrounded by so many people all the time, I cherish every alone ones...
Not that I'm kind of «agoraphob» now but I no more like to be in a crowd of with many people around...
Many could say that I'm a bit «savage» but I love my retirement peaceful life now..

I'd be so happy to have a boyfriend BUT, not hoping to have one soon...

Have a nice and ZEN weekend.

David Jeffreys said...

H A P P Y B I R T H D A Y ! ! !

Joe, I hope this is indeed a special birthday!

David

Jay M. said...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!! I love doing the same thing you describe! Always a wonderful feeling.

I hope the rest of your day is awesome!

Peace <3
Jay

Mike said...

Happy Belated Birthday!!!

I always have to go all the way when I do what you describe.

Soul Yaoi said...

Belated Happy Birthday!
Interesting fetish. :)