Friday, August 21, 2026

Apparently, It’s Friday

It’s Friday, but it doesn’t feel like Friday. Sadly, it feels like Saturday. I say “sadly” because that means I still have to work, even though my brain seems convinced it’s already the weekend.

Last night didn’t feel like Thursday night either. In fact, I almost forgot to watch the new episode of Star Trek: Strange New Worlds, which is released every Thursday. Apparently, my internal calendar is a little out of sync this week.

At least Isabella let me sleep until a few minutes after 5 a.m. She usually isn’t that patient when it’s a salmon day. Maybe the days getting shorter are messing with her internal clock, too. Whatever the reason, I got to sleep later than usual, and I’m certainly not complaining.

Now I just have to convince myself that today really is a workday.

Have a great Friday, everyone, and enjoy the weekend ahead!

Thursday, August 20, 2026

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Almost Friday

It’s Thursday, and there really isn’t much to say this morning. I’m drinking my coffee and contemplating the day ahead—which reminds me, I need to stop and get more coffee on the way home. Running out of coffee is not a situation I want to find myself in tomorrow morning.

The only thing on my agenda today is an appointment with my podiatrist this afternoon, so I’m only working half a day. I certainly won’t complain about a short workday, especially this close to the weekend.

Otherwise, it should be a fairly quiet Thursday. Sometimes, there just isn’t much going on, and that’s perfectly fine.

Have a great day, everyone! The weekend is almost here.

Wednesday, August 19, 2026

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The Many Voices of Isabella


I think the most exciting thing to happen around here lately occurred this morning when Isabella did something completely unexpected: she let me sleep.

She first tried to wake me up around 3:30 a.m. Normally, once Isabella decides it is time for breakfast, she can be very persistent. This morning, however, she apparently reconsidered. She settled down beside me and patiently waited for me to wake up on my own.

That led to two surprises.

The first came when I rolled over and felt something furry beside me. Usually, if Isabella is that close to my head in the early morning hours, she is meowing at me and doing everything she can to wake me up. Instead, she was just lying there quietly.

The second surprise came when I looked at the clock: 4:45 a.m.

She had let me sleep for more than an hour after her first attempt to wake me. Since she had been such a good and patient girl, I got up and fed her before making myself a cup of coffee.

All of this got me thinking about something I’ve wondered about for years. I have a question for all my fellow cat owners out there: Have you ever had a cat that whispers?

Isabella does.

In fact, Isabella seems to have five different levels of meowing, and after ten years together, I know what most of them mean.

At the quietest level, she whispers. Sometimes almost no sound comes out at all; other times she makes a tiny little “ack ack” noise.

The next level is a short, high-pitched meow. It’s still very soft and usually just enough to let me know she wants my attention.

Then there is what I think of as her unhappy meow. It’s slightly louder and has a plaintive quality to it, almost as if she’s crying. This is the sound she makes when something is not going according to Isabella’s plans.

After that comes what I would consider a normal cat’s meow. Oddly enough, this is probably the one I hear least often. Even at her normal volume, Isabella is usually fairly soft-spoken.

And then there is THE MEOW.

Isabella reserves this one for those moments when she can hear me but can’t see me. If I’m on the other side of a closed door, for example, subtlety goes right out the window. She also uses it when she’s in her cat carrier and the carrier starts moving. Put that carrier in a moving car, and Isabella makes sure that everyone within hearing distance knows exactly how she feels about the situation.

The whispering, though, is unlike anything I’ve ever heard from another cat I’ve had.

My previous cat, Victoria, had essentially one volume: loud. She was part Siamese, and instead of a traditional “meow,” she had that distinctive Siamese “YEOW!” If Victoria had something to say, there was never any question about whether you were going to hear it. Isabella, by comparison, has an entire vocabulary of little whispers, squeaks, cries, meows, and, when necessary, full-volume protests.

I think anyone who has lived with a cat long enough eventually learns that cats have a language all their own. We begin to recognize that one sound means “I’m hungry,” another means “Where are you?” and another means “Something is terribly wrong, and by terribly wrong I mean that you’ve closed a door between us.”

They learn our language, too. Maybe they don’t understand every word we say, but they certainly learn particular words, sounds, tones of voice, and routines. Somehow, over the years, we develop a language together.

This morning, though, Isabella didn’t need to make a sound at all.

She simply curled up beside me and waited.

For a cat who usually believes breakfast should be served promptly at 4 a.m.—if not earlier—that may have been the most eloquent thing she could have said.

Tuesday, August 18, 2026

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The Human Seasons

The Human Seasons

By John Keats

Four Seasons fill the measure of the year;
    There are four seasons in the mind of man:
He has his lusty Spring, when fancy clear
    Takes in all beauty with an easy span:
He has his Summer, when luxuriously
    Spring’s honied cud of youthful thought he loves
To ruminate, and by such dreaming high
    Is nearest unto heaven: quiet coves
His soul has in its Autumn, when his wings
    He furleth close; contented so to look
On mists in idleness—to let fair things
    Pass by unheeded as a threshold brook.
                He has his Winter too of pale misfeature,
                Or else he would forego his mortal nature.


About the Poem

We often speak of life as a journey, but John Keats imagines it as something more cyclical and familiar: the changing seasons. Within every human life—and perhaps within every human heart—there is a spring, summer, autumn, and winter.

Spring is the season of discovery. Everything seems fresh, beauty is easily found, and possibility stretches in every direction. Summer takes those early impressions and lingers over them. It is a season of fullness, when we savor our experiences, revisit our dreams, and allow ourselves to believe we might reach something close to heaven.

Then comes autumn. The restless wings begin to fold. We become less determined to chase every beautiful thing and more willing simply to watch as life passes before us. Keats does not portray this as bitterness or defeat. There is contentment in it—a quiet acceptance that we do not have to possess every pleasure or follow every path. Some things may pass us “as a threshold brook,” noticed but undisturbed.

Finally, there is winter, when age, loss, illness, and mortality become harder to ignore. Keats gives winter only two lines, but they carry the weight of the entire poem. Winter may not have spring’s excitement, summer’s abundance, or autumn’s tranquility, but it is part of being human. Without it, we would “forego” our mortal nature; we would cease to be the fragile, temporary creatures we are.

Although Keats presents these seasons as stages of a lifetime, I think we experience all four many times. A single year can contain new beginnings, periods of abundance, moments of withdrawal, and stretches of cold uncertainty. Sometimes they can all occur within the same week. We may feel young and hopeful in one part of our lives while experiencing winter in another.

Perhaps the comfort of the metaphor is that no season is unnatural. We should not expect ourselves always to be blossoming or producing. There are times for growth and times for rest, times to spread our wings and times to fold them close. Each season belongs to us, and each has something to teach us about what it means to live.

“The Human Seasons” is a fourteen-line sonnet built around an extended metaphor comparing the four seasons of the year to the stages of human life and the changing states of the human mind. Keats wrote the poem in 1818 and included it in a letter to his close friend Benjamin Bailey.

The sonnet follows a largely Shakespearean rhyme scheme, moving through three quatrains before concluding with a rhyming couplet. Each of the first three seasons receives several lines of rich imagery, while winter is compressed into the final two. This sudden brevity reflects winter’s starkness and brings the poem directly to its central truth: mortality is an unavoidable part of human nature.

Spring represents youth, imagination, and an effortless receptiveness to beauty. In summer, the mind “ruminates” on the experiences gathered during spring. Keats’s unusual phrase “Spring’s honied cud” compares thought to something slowly and pleasurably savored. The image may not sound particularly elegant to modern ears, but it suggests the mind nourishing itself by returning again and again to youthful dreams.

Autumn brings stillness. The soul folds its wings and becomes content to observe rather than pursue. The “mists in idleness” anticipate the lush seasonal imagery Keats would later develop more fully in his celebrated ode “To Autumn.” Winter, however, offers no comforting imagery. Its “pale misfeature” suggests age, physical decline, and death. Yet Keats does not treat winter as an error in the cycle. It is precisely what makes us mortal—and therefore human.


About the Poet

John Keats was born in London on October 31, 1795. After losing both parents while still young, he trained as an apothecary and surgeon but ultimately abandoned medicine to devote himself to poetry. He became one of the major poets of the English Romantic movement, although his literary career lasted only a few years.

Keats’s poetry is known for its sensuous imagery, emotional intensity, and meditations on beauty, imagination, nature, love, and mortality. His best-known works include “Ode to a Nightingale,” “Ode on a Grecian Urn,” “La Belle Dame sans Merci,” and “To Autumn.”

During his lifetime, Keats endured harsh criticism and achieved little of the recognition he would receive after his death. He also suffered profound personal losses and failing health. After developing tuberculosis, he traveled to Italy in hopes that its warmer climate might help him recover. He died in Rome on February 23, 1821, at only twenty-five years old.

Knowing how short Keats’s life would be gives “The Human Seasons” added poignancy. He wrote knowingly about life’s winter even though he himself would scarcely have time to pass beyond its spring. Yet in that brief spring, he created poetry that has endured through generations, allowing his thoughts on beauty and mortality to outlive the mortal life from which they came.

Monday, August 17, 2026

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Black Cats Make Mondays Better

It’s Monday again, but today is also National Black Cat Appreciation Day. If ever there were a reason to make Monday a little brighter, celebrating black cats—especially my Isabella—seems like a very good one.

Black cats have long been associated with superstition, particularly the belief that they bring bad luck. Although most people probably do not take those old stories seriously, the stigma has never entirely disappeared. In shelters across the United States, black cats are often overlooked in favor of cats with more colorful or distinctive markings. Some people still avoid them because of superstition, while others simply do not notice how beautiful and expressive they can be.

Anyone who has ever shared a home with a black cat knows there is nothing unlucky about them.

Isabella has been part of my life for more than ten years now, and I cannot imagine my home without her. She wakes me around four every morning to make sure breakfast is served promptly, and she has perfected the art of finding exposed skin when gentler methods fail. She has her routines, her preferences, and very definite opinions about how our household should operate. As far as Isabella is concerned, I merely live here to meet her needs.

Still, she is also my companion. She makes an ordinary day less lonely and a difficult day easier simply by being near me. She can be demanding, stubborn, affectionate, funny, and endlessly entertaining—often all within the span of a few minutes. She brings far more love and happiness into my life than any superstition could ever outweigh.

Black cats are not bad luck, sinister, or somehow less worthy of affection. They are simply cats, each with a personality entirely their own, waiting for someone willing to see beyond the color of their fur.

If you are ever considering adopting a cat, do not pass over the quiet black one watching from the corner—or hiding beneath a chair while her brothers run around the room. I am so glad I reached down and picked up that quiet, frightened, and beautiful little cat named Bridget. Of course, that name would never do. Bridget became Isabella, and she came home with me.


Mondays may not always be worth celebrating, but black cats certainly are.


Sunday, August 16, 2026

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Healing for Body and Spirit

“‘But I will restore you to health and heal your wounds,’ declares the Lord.”

—Jeremiah 30:17

Yesterday, I took a bad tumble while hiking, leaving me scraped, bruised, and aching all over this morning. It brought to mind the comfort Scripture offers whenever we are hurting, whether those wounds are physical or emotional.

Some days, we simply do not feel well. Our bodies ache, illness drains our strength, or an injury reminds us that we are more fragile than we would like to admit. At other times, the wounds are hidden—grief, loneliness, disappointment, or the quiet exhaustion of carrying too much for too long.

God cares about all these wounds. Jeremiah’s promise of restoration was originally given to a people who had suffered physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Their healing would not happen all at once, but God had not forgotten them. He was still at work restoring what hardship had broken.

James also reminds us that we do not have to endure suffering entirely alone: “Is anyone among you sick? Let them call the elders of the church to pray over them… And the prayer offered in faith will make the sick person well; the Lord will raise them up” (James 5:14–15). Prayer does not always bring the immediate healing we hope for, but it places us—and those we love—within the compassionate care of God and the supportive embrace of our community.

Whether our pain is physical or emotional, we can turn to God when we feel weak. Healing may come through medicine, rest, time, the kindness of others, or strength enough to face another day. Whatever form it takes, we can trust that God sees every wound, remains beside us in our suffering, and continues the patient work of making us whole.

Saturday, August 15, 2026

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Moment of Zen: My Type

Yesterday, I wrote about how my tastes have changed over the years and how who a man is has become far more important to me than what he looks like. Still, if I had to describe the physical “type” that has consistently caught my eye, it would be a handsome, blue-eyed blond with a naturally athletic body. This may be one of the hardest Moments of Zen I’ve ever created because my taste in men is actually quite varied. The men pictured in this post are arranged roughly by age, from youngest to oldest, not in order of preference.







Creating My “Type”

I began by giving ChatGPT a collection of photographs of men I find particularly attractive. Some represented my ideal face, while others showed the body type I prefer. Rather than reproducing any one man, ChatGPT identified the qualities that appeared repeatedly and combined them into a fictional version of my “ideal man”: blue eyes, sandy-blond hair, a strong jaw, broad shoulders, a muscular but natural build, and a warm, quietly confident expression.

The Face

The first image concentrated primarily on his face. I used photographs of men with the facial characteristics I have always found most attractive: striking blue eyes, short blond or light-brown hair, strong features, light stubble, and a masculine appearance that still feels friendly and approachable. He was dressed in a pale-blue shirt to create a polished portrait without distracting from his face.

The Body

For the second image, I added photographs representing my ideal body type. I wanted someone muscular and well-defined, with broad shoulders, a strong chest, a narrow waist, powerful legs, and some natural body hair—but not someone so heavily muscled that he looked like a competitive bodybuilder. Placing him shirtless beside a lake allowed the image to show his complete physique in a natural outdoor setting.

In Briefs

The final image brought the face and body together while revealing a little more. I asked for the same fictional man wearing only a pair of navy briefs. Because some of my reference photographs contained nudity, the image generator initially refused several attempts. Recasting the scene as a tasteful swimwear portrait on a lakeside dock finally worked—and gave me one last view of the man who is, at least physically, very much “my type.”


Friday, August 14, 2026

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Do You Have a Type?

I came across the picture above while looking for something to use for a Pic of the Day, and my first thought was, Well, if I have a type, he certainly fits it.

Over the years, though, I’ve realized that my “type” isn’t nearly as specific as I once thought it was. My tastes have changed, broadened, and sometimes surprised me. I can find all sorts of men attractive, including plenty who look nothing like the men I would have described as my ideal when I was younger. More importantly, I’ve learned that what’s inside a man can make him far more attractive to me than what’s on the outside.

A man can be absolutely gorgeous and check every box on my imaginary list, but if he’s arrogant, cruel, selfish, or simply unpleasant to be around, that physical attraction can disappear remarkably fast. On the other hand, I’ve known men who might not have immediately caught my eye across a crowded room, but the more I got to know them, the more attractive they became. Intelligence, kindness, humor, compassion, confidence without arrogance, and a genuine interest in other people can transform the way I see someone.

Looks matter, of course. I’m not going to pretend they don’t. Physical attraction is often what first catches our attention, especially when all we have to go on is a photograph or a handsome stranger walking past us. But there’s a difference between what initially attracts us to someone and what makes us continue to find that person attractive.

All of that being said, apparently some things never change.

If you asked me to describe the physical “type” I’ve consistently found attractive throughout my life, the guy in this picture comes pretty darn close. Tall and lithe rather than overly muscular, with a lean, naturally athletic body and just a smattering of chest hair. Give him blond hair and blue eyes, and he would pretty much check every box.

I’ve wondered why blond hair and blue eyes have always had such an effect on me. I suspect there are at least two reasons. The first is that my earliest crush was a blond-haired, blue-eyed boy. Maybe somewhere in the back of my mind, that first experience of being intensely attracted to another guy established a template that has stuck with me ever since.

The other possibility is much simpler: it’s the opposite of me. I have brown eyes, and I had brown hair before most of what I have left decided gray was a better option. Maybe there has always been something particularly appealing about those lighter features because they’re so different from my own.

Of course, plenty of men I’ve been attracted to over the years haven’t had blond hair or blue eyes. Some haven’t been tall. Some haven’t been particularly lithe. Some have been hairy, some smooth, some muscular, some skinny, and some somewhere in between. Attraction has a funny way of ignoring the rules we make for it.

And the older I get, the more I realize that the men who stay attractive in my mind aren’t necessarily the ones who came closest to some physical ideal. They’re the ones whose personalities drew me in. Someone can become more handsome the longer you know him just as easily as someone beautiful can become decidedly less so once he opens his mouth.

Maybe that’s the difference between having a “type” and actually being attracted to someone. A type is an ideal we carry around in our heads. Attraction is much messier, more unpredictable, and ultimately more interesting.

Still, if a tall, lithe, blond-haired, blue-eyed man with a little chest hair happens to walk by, I’m probably going to notice.

I’m only human.

What about you? Do you have a “type”? And if you do, have the people you’ve actually fallen for fit that type—or have they completely surprised you?

Thursday, August 13, 2026

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Reading for Pleasure

Sometimes a picture can strike inspiration when I’m trying to figure out what to write about. The picture above caught my attention: a young man, nude, relaxing in the grass with a good book. There are certainly worse ways to spend a summer afternoon.

Usually, when I post a picture of a guy reading, I look up the book first, just to make sure it isn’t something I’d come to regret posting. The book he’s reading is Le Prince Pédant II. I don’t speak French, so I had no idea what the title meant. It turns out to be The Pedant Prince II by Taram Boyle, the second and final volume of Le Prince Pédant.

According to the book’s description:

Tristan fait face à un tribunal éclésiastique. Son crime? Une relation contre-nature avec un homme. Tristan n’est pas dupe. Il sait bien que l’Église vise en réalité le Prince Hamelin de Hardourie. Les témoignages s’enchaînent et sont accablants. Tristan réalise qu’il ne pourra pas échapper au bûcher déjà dressé devant l’église. Seul un miracle pourra le sauver…

In English:

Tristan faces an ecclesiastical court. His crime? An unnatural relationship with a man. Tristan is not fooled. He is well aware that the Church is actually targeting Prince Hamelin of Hardourie. The testimonies follow one another and are overwhelming. Tristan realizes that he will not be able to escape the stake already erected in front of the church. Only a miracle can save him…

It sounds like it could be an interesting book, if only there were an English translation.

Currently, I’m reading the Chester Falls series by Ana Ashley. It’s not exactly highbrow literature, but these days I mostly read what I often jokingly call “trashy gay romance.” It’s not really trashy; I simply read for enjoyment, and sometimes I need a bit of fluff. There’s nothing wrong with a book whose main purpose is to entertain you.

Some of my favorite authors of M/M romance are May Archer, Lucy Lennox, and J.E. Birk. Their books are fun, easy reads, and sometimes that’s exactly what I want.

I also enjoy M/M romance mixed with mystery, especially books by Josh Lanyon. I particularly enjoyed Lanyon’s The Art of Murder series and the Secrets and Scrabble series. They’re quite different from one another: The Art of Murder leans more toward hard-boiled crime and suspense, while Secrets and Scrabble is firmly in cozy-mystery territory. Both give me the romance I enjoy along with a mystery to solve.

The first book I ever read by Josh Lanyon was The Darkling Thrush, and when I finished it, I had absolutely no intention of reading anything else by her. Quite frankly, I thought the book was awful. Susan eventually convinced me to give Lanyon another chance, and I’m very glad she did. I’ve since come to love many of her books and series. Trust me, The Darkling Thrush is an anomaly among Lanyon’s books, and I’m glad Susan talked me into giving her work a second chance.

There are several books by different authors that rank among my favorites, but Lanyon’s Winter Kill is easily in my top three. I rarely read a book more than once, but I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve reread Winter Kill. It has everything I enjoy—a romance, a mystery, and more than a little thriller thrown into the mix—and I absolutely love the two main characters. If you can have a crush on fictional characters, those two men would certainly qualify for me. Of all Lanyon’s books, Winter Kill is the one I’d most love to see made into a movie. I already have the whole thing pictured in my head; Hollywood just needs to get around to making it.


For much of my life, I read because I had to—for school, for teaching, for research, or because there was something I needed to learn. These days, I’m perfectly happy to read simply because a book is fun. Maybe that means a mystery, maybe a romance, or maybe some unapologetic gay fluff. A book doesn’t have to be profound to be worth the time spent reading it.

Of course, if I could spend the afternoon stretched out naked in the grass with a good book like the young man in the picture, that wouldn’t be such a bad way to read either.

So, what are you currently reading? And are you reading it because you have to—or simply because you want to?