Thursday, May 21, 2026

The Quiet Days

There are days when I wake up knowing exactly what I want to write about, and then there are mornings like this one where my mind is mostly blank except for coffee, work, and the fact that I’m tired.

I’m working a half day today and a half day tomorrow from home before being off until Tuesday. Honestly, there’s not much else going on at the moment. No big plans. No exciting museum events. No deep philosophical thoughts before sunrise. Just another quiet morning in Vermont.

Maybe that’s not a bad thing.

Life has felt so busy lately that perhaps a few uneventful days are exactly what I need. Sometimes peace arrives disguised as routine: feeding Isabella, drinking coffee while the house is still quiet, going to work, and coming home without drama or exhaustion waiting at the door.

We spend so much time thinking life has to be exciting to matter. Social media certainly makes it seem that way. But most of life is lived in ordinary moments, and there is something comforting about that. Quiet days give us room to breathe.

So today may simply be a workday followed by another workday tomorrow. Then a few days to rest, recharge, and maybe do absolutely nothing important at all.

And honestly, that sounds pretty nice.

Wednesday, May 20, 2026

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Not Much to Say

Some mornings, I sit down to write these posts and the words come easily. Other mornings, like today, I realize I really don’t have much to say at all. Life is just…quiet at the moment. No major excitement, no dramatic stories, no deep thoughts before sunrise. Just another workday ahead.

I’m working a full day today and then only a half day tomorrow before being off work until next Tuesday, which is definitely something to look forward to. Sometimes having a few quiet days with nothing much going on is a good thing, even if it doesn’t make for the most exciting blog post.

Right now, I think I’m mostly just looking forward to a slower pace, a little extra rest, and not having to think too much for a few days. Honestly, that sounds pretty nice to me.

I hope all of you have a wonderful day and an even better weekend ahead.

Tuesday, May 19, 2026

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Notes for Further Study

Notes for Further Study  
By Christopher Salerno

You are a nobody  
until another man leaves  
a note under your wiper:  
I like your hair, clothes, car—call me!  
Late May, I brush pink  
Crepe Myrtle blossoms  
from the hood of my car.  
Again spring factors  
into our fever. Would this  
affair leave any room for error?  
What if I only want  
him to hum me a lullaby.  
To rest in the nets  
of our own preferences.  
I think of women  
I’ve loved who, near the end,  
made love to me solely  
for the endorphins. Praise  
be to those bodies lit  
with magic. I pulse  
my wipers, sweep away pollen  
from the windshield glass  
to allow the radar  
detector to detect. In the prim  
light of spring I drive  
home alone along the river’s  
tight curves where it bends  
like handwritten words.  
On the radio, a foreign love  
song some men sing to rise.

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About the Poem

There is something achingly familiar in this poem for many gay men, especially those who came of age learning to read desire in fragments, gestures, and coded moments. A note under a windshield wiper becomes more than flirtation—it becomes recognition. You are a nobody until another man notices you. That line carries the quiet loneliness of invisibility and the sudden electricity of being seen.

Christopher Salerno captures the strange mixture of hope, caution, lust, tenderness, and melancholy that can accompany even the smallest encounter. Spring, with its blossoms and pollen and feverish renewal, becomes the perfect backdrop for possibility. Yet beneath the flirtation is uncertainty. Is this about romance? Sex? Comfort? Escape? The speaker wonders if he only wants “him to hum me a lullaby,” which feels less like seduction and more like a longing to rest safely in another person’s presence.

I also love how physical the poem feels without ever becoming explicit: the pollen on the windshield, the pulse of the wipers, the river curving “like handwritten words.” Everything is movement and sensation. Even driving home alone carries emotional weight. Desire lingers in the air like spring humidity.

What strikes me most is the ending. A foreign love song “some men sing to rise.” The line feels both deeply personal and universal—a reminder that queer longing has always existed, often in coded forms, carried through songs, glances, poems, and half-understood signals. Sometimes survival itself has depended on learning how to hear those songs.

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About the Poem

“Notes for Further Study” is a contemporary lyric poem that explores queer desire, loneliness, intimacy, and emotional ambiguity through the lens of an ordinary moment. Christopher Salerno uses everyday imagery—cars, windshield wipers, spring blossoms, radio music—to create a meditation on what it means to be recognized and desired by another person.

The poem moves fluidly between memory, observation, and reflection. Its title suggests both emotional self-examination and the unfinished nature of human connection: these are “notes,” not conclusions. The poem’s emotional power comes from its restraint, allowing longing and vulnerability to emerge through image and implication rather than overt declaration.

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About the Author

Christopher Salerno is an American poet, editor, and educator known for poetry that often explores identity, desire, memory, and emotional vulnerability with lyrical precision. He is the author of several poetry collections, including The Man Grave and Sun & Urn. Salerno’s work frequently balances sensual imagery with introspective reflection, creating poems that feel both intimate and intellectually searching.

In addition to his poetry, Salerno has worked extensively in literary publishing and editing, helping support contemporary poetry and emerging writers through journals and literary organizations.


Thankfully, I am feeling better today. I still have a slight headache, and I barely slept last night, but I’m not in as much pain as when I woke up yesterday. I wish I could stay home another day, but I have things I have to do at work today.

Monday, May 18, 2026

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Monday Reality Check

I went to bed early last night because of a migraine. Unfortunately, when I woke up this morning, the migraine was still there and has only gotten worse the longer I’ve been awake. To make matters even worse, I woke up thinking it was Sunday…only to realize, to my horror, that it is actually Monday.

So today, I’m staying home, using a sick day, and going back to bed. Sometimes that’s just what you have to do.

I hope all of you have a much better start to your week than I have had so far.

Sunday, May 17, 2026

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Kindness That Reflects Christ


“Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ has forgiven you.” — Ephesians 4:32 


For many LGBTQ+ Christians, kindness has often come from unexpected places. Sometimes it has come from close friends who stood beside us when others walked away. Sometimes it has come from strangers who simply treated us with dignity when we desperately needed it. And sometimes, sadly, the places that should have reflected Christ’s love most clearly have instead offered judgment, rejection, or silence.

That is why Ephesians 4:32 feels so important. Paul does not say, “Be correct to one another,” or “Win every argument.” He says: “Be kind to one another, tenderhearted…” Kindness is not weakness. Tenderheartedness is not compromise. These are Christlike virtues.

Jesus repeatedly showed that love and compassion were at the center of His ministry. He touched those others avoided. He ate with those society rejected. He defended the vulnerable. Over and over again, Christ demonstrated that human dignity matters.

Paul echoes this same spirit elsewhere:

“Bear with one another and, if anyone has a complaint against another, forgive each other; just as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive.” — Colossians 3:13 

And again:

“Let all that you do be done in love.” — 1 Corinthians 16:14 

As LGBTQ+ people, many of us know what it feels like to long for grace. We know what it means to hope someone will see us fully and still choose kindness. Because of that, we are uniquely capable of extending compassion to others. The pain we have endured can either harden us or deepen our empathy. Christ calls us toward the latter.

This does not mean accepting abuse or remaining in harmful spaces. Forgiveness and kindness are not the same as allowing others to wound us endlessly. Jesus Himself walked away from those who sought to harm Him. Healthy boundaries can coexist with grace.

But Ephesians reminds us that our hearts should not become consumed by bitterness. The world already contains enough cruelty. Christians—especially those who know what exclusion feels like—can instead become witnesses to a different way of living: one rooted in mercy, tenderness, and love.

Micah 6:8 offers a similar call:

“What does the Lord require of you but to do justice and to love kindness and to walk humbly with your God?”

Love kindness. Not merely tolerate it. Not occasionally practice it. Love it.

In a harsh world, kindness can become holy resistance.

Today, may you remember that Christ’s love is not diminished by who you are. You are called to reflect His compassion not because you must earn God’s love, but because you already live within it. And sometimes the greatest testimony we can offer is simply this: after everything we have endured, we still choose kindness.

Friday, May 15, 2026

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Half-Day Friday


It’s work-from-home Friday today, and honestly, I might not even get dressed. One of the small joys of working from home is being able to ease into the day with a cup of coffee, comfortable clothes, and no commute. Since I worked some extra time yesterday, I’ll only be working half a day today, which makes the start of the weekend feel even sweeter.

The best part is that I’m finally feeling better. The rain has finally moved on, and with it, the headache and sluggishness I’ve been fighting the past few days. It’s amazing how much weather can affect how we feel, especially here in Vermont where gray skies can seem endless at times. Today feels lighter in more ways than one.

I’m looking forward to a quiet weekend, a little rest, and hopefully some sunshine. After a long, rainy stretch, it’s nice to finally feel human again.

I hope all of you have a wonderful weekend ahead!

Thursday, May 14, 2026

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A Quiet, Rainy Morning

I’m running a little late this morning, so this will be short. The rain is still lingering, and so is the migraine that came with it. After I fed Isabella, I crawled back into bed for a little while longer, hoping a bit more sleep might help. It did, at least enough to get moving, though now I’m paying for it by running behind.

At the moment, I’m trying to finish breakfast and savor my morning coffee before I start getting ready for work. Some mornings feel rushed before they even begin, and today is one of those days. Still, I’m hoping for another quiet day at work—nothing too chaotic, just enough calm to get through the lingering headache and the gray skies outside.

Rainy mornings have a way of slowing everything down, including me. Maybe that’s not always a bad thing, even if the clock disagrees.

Wednesday, May 13, 2026

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Rains and Migraines

Some mornings begin with sunshine and energy. Other mornings begin with a pounding head, gray skies, and the realization that the weather forecast was probably trying to warn you all along.

Last night, I went to bed early because of a migraine that had been steadily getting worse since yesterday afternoon. Thankfully, it’s not quite as bad this morning, though it’s still lingering enough to make me feel slow and foggy. It’s one of those headaches where you can function, but you definitely don’t want to do much more than absolutely necessary.

Honestly, I probably should have expected it. We’re supposed to have rain for the next three days, and my body usually seems to know the weather is changing before I even look at the forecast. I’ve often joked that migraines can be more accurate than meteorologists. The pressure changes, the gray skies, the damp heaviness in the air—it all seems to settle right behind my eyes.

Still, the day has to begin whether I feel great or not. Coffee helps a little. Quiet helps more. Hopefully, the rain will do what rain is supposed to do: slow things down, wash the world clean for a bit, and maybe give all of us an excuse to rest when we need it.

For now, I think I’ll take things one step at a time and hope the migraine continues easing instead of digging in for the long haul.

Tuesday, May 12, 2026

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The Things I Love


The Things I Love 

By Scottie McKenzie Frasier

A butterfly dancing in the sunlight,
A bird singing to his mate,
The whispering pines,
The restless sea,
The gigantic mountains,
A stately tree,
The rain upon the roof,
The sun at early dawn,
A boy with rod and hook,
The babble of a shady brook,
A woman with her smiling babe,
A man whose eyes are kind and wise,
Youth that is eager and unafraid—
When all is said, I do love best
A little home where love abides,
And where there’s kindness, peace, and rest.


About the Poem

There is something deeply comforting about a poem like this. In a world that often feels loud, hurried, and divided, The Things I Love reminds us to slow down and notice the beauty around us. It is a poem built not on grand declarations or dramatic moments, but on quiet joys: sunlight, rain on the roof, birdsong, mountains, kindness, peace, and home.

What strikes me most is that the poem’s final conclusion is not about wealth, fame, or achievement. After listing all the wonders of nature and humanity, the poet says that what he loves best is “a little home where love abides.” That line feels especially meaningful today. Many of us spend our lives searching for acceptance, safety, and belonging. For LGBTQ+ people in particular, “home” is not always something we are automatically given. Sometimes we have to create it ourselves. Sometimes home is a partner, a group of friends, a chosen family, a quiet apartment, a beloved pet curled beside us, or simply a place where we can finally be ourselves without fear.

The poem also quietly celebrates gentleness. A “man whose eyes are kind and wise.” “Youth that is eager and unafraid.” “Kindness, peace, and rest.” These are not values our culture often prioritizes, yet they are among the things that truly sustain us. Kindness matters. Peace matters. Love matters.

As I read this poem, I think about the little things that make life meaningful: the first cup of coffee in the morning, sunlight through the window, the sound of rain at night, a cat insisting it is breakfast time, a conversation with someone who understands you, and the comfort of knowing there is a place where you belong. Those are the things that endure long after the noise of the world fades away.

The Things I Love is a simple lyric poem that celebrates the beauty of everyday life and the comfort found in love, kindness, and home. Rather than focusing on dramatic emotion, the poem gently catalogs moments from nature and ordinary human experience before arriving at its central truth: that peace and love shared in a home are among life’s greatest blessings.

Its quiet sincerity and accessible imagery give the poem a timeless, reflective quality.


About the Poet

Scottie McKenzie Frasier, born on September 7, 1884, in Talladega, Alabama, was a poet, editor, and lecturer. As a suffrage activist, she cofounded the Dothan Equal Suffrage Association in 1912. McKenzie Frasier authored several poetry collections, including Things that Are Mine (Steen Hinrichsen, 1922) and Fagot of Fancy* (Progressive Publishers, 1920). She died on November 21, 1964.


* The title Fagot of Fancy by Scottie McKenzie Frasier is using the older spelling “fagot,” which in this context does not carry the modern slur meaning. Instead, it comes from the older English and French word meaning “a bundle of sticks” or “a bundle gathered together.”  

The word fancy in early twentieth-century literary language often referred to imagination, poetic thought, whimsy, or creative inspiration—not merely liking something.  

In other words, Fagot of Fancy is a poetic, somewhat old-fashioned title suggesting a gathered bundle of imaginative pieces, much like tying together small branches into one bundle. It would have sounded literary and evocative in 1920 when the collection was published.  

Ironically, because the word later evolved into a derogatory slang term in the twentieth century, modern readers often do a double take when they encounter the title today. But in Frasier’s era, the title would have been understood in its older, literary sense.


Monday, May 11, 2026

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Monday Morning Mood

I really just want to go back to bed. Unfortunately, work has other plans.

I’d call in sick, except I hate calling in sick on Mondays, and besides, I’m not actually sick—just sleepy and tired. I did not sleep well at all last night. It took me forever to fall asleep, and once I finally did, I woke up several times throughout the night. Even ignoring Isabella trying to convince me that breakfast should happen at an unreasonable hour, I still stayed in bed until 5:00 this morning. Honestly, I wish I were still there, warm under the covers and drifting back to sleep.

Instead, I’m sitting here with a cup of coffee, trying to convince myself that being awake is a good idea. Hopefully, the caffeine will eventually do its job and I’ll start feeling human again. Until then, I suppose I’ll just ease into the week the best I can.

Here’s hoping Monday is gentle on all of us.

Sunday, May 10, 2026

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Speech Seasoned with Salt

“Conduct yourselves wisely toward outsiders, making the most of the time. Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer everyone.”

— Colossians 4:5–6

For many LGBTQ+ Christians, words have often been weapons rather than blessings. Some of us grew up hearing careless comments, harsh sermons, or so-called “truth” spoken without grace. Others learned to stay silent because we feared what might happen if we spoke honestly about who we are. Words matter. They can wound deeply, but they can also heal, encourage, and remind someone that they are loved by God.

In this passage, Paul reminds believers that our speech should be “gracious, seasoned with salt.” Salt preserves, enhances, and gives flavor. Paul is not calling Christians to be cruel, sarcastic, or self-righteous. Instead, he is urging us to speak with wisdom, kindness, sincerity, and depth. Our words should reflect the love of Christ, not the bitterness of the world.

That message feels especially important today. LGBTQ+ people know what it is like to encounter speech that tears down rather than builds up. Yet Scripture repeatedly calls us toward another way.

Ephesians 4:29 reminds us:

“Let no evil talk come out of your mouths, but only what is useful for building up, as there is need, so that your words may give grace to those who hear.”

And in Proverbs 16:24 we read:

“Pleasant words are like a honeycomb, sweetness to the soul and health to the body.”

As LGBTQ+ Christians, we have an opportunity to embody this kind of grace-filled speech in a world that often thrives on outrage and cruelty. That does not mean remaining silent in the face of injustice. Jesus Himself spoke boldly against hypocrisy and oppression. But even truth can be spoken with compassion and wisdom rather than hatred.

In fact, Jesus says in Matthew 5:13:

“You are the salt of the earth.”

Salt changes the flavor of whatever it touches. When we speak with kindness, authenticity, and love, we bear witness to the presence of Christ in our lives. Sometimes the most powerful testimony is not an argument won, but a gracious word spoken at the right moment.

There will always be voices that seek to shame, condemn, or divide. We do not have to answer hatred with hatred. We can answer with dignity. With wisdom. With truth wrapped in grace.

May our words never become bland, empty, or cruel. Instead, may they be seasoned with the salt of compassion, honesty, and Christlike love.

Friday, May 8, 2026

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TGIF


It’s finally Friday, and thankfully, it’s also a work from home Friday. After a long week, I’m looking forward to a quieter day with a cup of coffee nearby and a chance to work through a few projects without the usual interruptions. Nothing too stressful, just catching up on some things that need to get done and easing into the weekend at a slower pace.

Honestly, these kinds of Fridays are always appreciated. It’s nice to have a day where I can focus, stay comfortable, and not worry about commuting or running from one thing to another. Hopefully, by the end of the day, I’ll have a few projects checked off my list and can fully settle into the weekend.

I hope all of you have a wonderful Friday and an even better weekend!